astrology and practical magick
for the rest of us

life's weird. use all the tools you've got.

You: "What is this place?"

Me: "It's a website." 


Okay, okay.

Here you'll find astrological and spiritual tools that are simple to use.

I don't have much patience for the fluff that's usually along for the ride. With me you'll get clear, direct content ... with a side of nerd and a dash of snark. 

I also reflect on technology and AI in my writing, because I love both and am excited to see where tech can take us. 

So, what am I up to on this ride we call Earth? I have two goals with my work:

One: I want to live in a world where it's okay to believe in spirituality and follow science. This is necessary, I believe, in order to be both wise and smart (my childhood dream). 

Two: I want to help you make the changes you want in your life, because I want to see the good guys win (that's you). 

I can help you move from a place of fear and worry, to a place of possibility and hope. And that's my favorite thing.

promise me if I'm vaporized you just keep having fun.

I need help with my

Hi! Nice to meet you. That's my face. I'm Sonja, aka Sonja the Grey.

I always wanted to be "wise and smart." My mistake was thinking that to be "wise and smart," I needed to exclude a huge part of what it is to be human.

Things I Do


🚧* beep beep* 🚧

[you hear construction noises from a nearby lot - some hammering, and maybe a car being backed into by a truck?]

I am revamping my offerings. For now, connect with me on social media (links in the footer), or get connected to my google calendar for astrological transits (it's free). 

Visit My Shop
birth chart image

No-Call Consult

The same work as a 1:1 Consult Call 👆 but offered asynchronously via text, email, chat, whatever. 

Because there's enough going on in your life, and 1:1 meetings shouldn't be the only way to get help.

Read More
birth chart image

The Bridge Membership

We're about to go through a disruption in the workforce like we've never seen before. The influence that AI will have on how we work and what's important to us will be tremendous. 

We've all been a part of a society that values mental knowledge and intelligence over just about everything else. With AI, that's going to change - we won't need humans to carry around "intelligence" anymore in the same way. 

We're going to need to fundamentally change our approach.

To think creatively about work, about how we work with the tools around us (AI or otherwise, though "AI" and "tech" will soon be synonymous).

To reconnect with why we're here, and what we're here to do. 

This doesn't happen overnight, and it doesn't happen in a bubble. This work can be made so much easier by being in community with other people. 

I work closely with spiritual tools and guides, because now more than ever we cannot throw out our connection to ... whatever that energy is out there, whether you call it "the Universe" or "Spirit" or "Energy" or "God," it can help us identify our paths forward. 

I also have over a decade of leadership experience in the tech fields, helping people find their way forward with purpose and excitement for their future. I love sci-fi and video games. I consider a good Netflix binge or a drive in the car just as therapeutic as a stroll down a grassy path.

All of which is to say, I'm not afraid of tech, I kinda love it. Let's go do this thing. 


Join The Bridge


Galanda says ...

Galanda B video testimonial image

Her talents are beyond words. ... Since Sonja performed her magic on me, I have felt lighter, and breezier, and as if a weight has been lifted off of me. And this was not just a one time thing, I felt this for weeks, and I continue to feel the positive effects of this.

From Brendan ...

Sonja is both kind and highly effective. She makes this appear to be easy, but it’s not a feat I’ve found many able to pull off.

She offers words of understanding and support when you need them, and inspires you to take that next step you’ve been leading up to. She knows when to ask you to elaborate and when to let a silence breathe so that you can stay with that last feeling or realization.

While her wisdom and perspective has been highly valuable, I value her deft and mature approach to conversation most of all.

Amy writes ...

Sonja's a fabulous ally to have on your side.

She has this amazing ability to pinpoint qualities you sensed were true about you and dynamics you naturally inhabit but didn't quite consciously know—and make it all clear. From there she guides you into the practical navigation around that revelation. Her spellwork alone fascinates me.

This isn't just one thing but an ecosystem around you, for you. If you're even wondering, then yes, this is for you. 

What kind of sorcery is this?!

Astrologer, chaos magician, tarot reader, certified reiki master, intuitive ... that's me! Over a decade in tech and management helps me ground the spiritual magic into practical, actionable support you can use right away.

I like To Art

When my kiddo was born, I painted a wall of superheroes on the bedroom wall. It's huge, awesome, and I'm never doing it again. If anyone knows how to take a wall with you when you move, let me know.

I <3 Videogames and sci-fi

Metaphors abound, and I will use them.

I mean, it's a dragon icon

I could tell you that I talk with Dragons in the spirit realm, which is true, I do. But really I saw the dragon icon in the list and wanted to put it on my page, so here it is.

Time for your next big change.

Man dressed in fantasy garb waves hearts into the air with his hand