Find Your


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Find Your


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Make your next big change.


Hey, it's me! That's my face. I'm Sonja, aka Sonja the Grey.

As long as I can remember, people have appeared in my life when they're facing a big shift. Encounters with me often act as catalysts — like Gandalf is to Frodo ... but hopefully -1 volcano of doom.

I've helped people enter new careers, launch successful businesses, begin (and end) relationships, and navigate difficult life events — all with wisdom, support, and humor. 

I help you open doors you might not know are there.

If you've found your way here, it's likely you're facing one of those times. There are a few ways to connect with my work: 

  • Follow me on Instagram, where I focus on helping people make change using spiritual insights, mindset work, and actionable tools.
  • Join the monthly membership! You'll get access to:
    • The Energy Report, a report on the energetics of every day, and how to work with it. This is a great tool for gaining insight into your every day life, reflecting on what's going on, and taking action to move forward. 
    • Access to The Bridge - a community on Discord where you can ask each other about what you're going through. 
      Interested? Check out the membership page to learn more. 
  • Work with me directly through one of my services. And if you're not sure what type of reading is a good fit, reach out through Instagram DMs and ask! I'm happy to help. 
  • Looking for ongoing support? I offer 1-2 spots at a time starting at $700/month. If you would like to apply, contact me via Instagram Direct Message for availability. 

No pressure to purchase, ever - I only want us working together if you're ready.

If you could change anything about your life, what would it be?

Let's make it happen. (Pew, pew!)


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The Bridge

Energy Report + Community Membership

The Energy Report, exclusively from Sonja the Grey, covering the astrological energy every month. And if you'd like, a community to explore it with!

Explore The Bridge

Intuitive Services

Do you feel stuck?

Does your body ache to make progress, but you feel like you're spinning your wheels?

Get the answers you need with an intuitive reading.

Options range from an in-depth astrology birth chart, to quick messages from the Universe.

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Galanda says ...

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Her talents are beyond words. ... Since Sonja performed her magic on me, I have felt lighter, and breezier, and as if a weight has been lifted off of me. And this was not just a one time thing, I felt this for weeks, and I continue to feel the positive effects of this.

From Jess ...

Working with Sonja has not only unblocked me from where I was stuck, her work validates how I am feeling, and has helped me find my purpose. It’s been a few months since working with her, and I still feel I’m integrating all the insights from our work together.

The depth and breadth of the help I received would have taken me years to work out by myself, even with serious study. I was truly impressed by how helpful this was, and I definitely felt like I got my money’s worth.

I’m truly grateful to have a resource like her in my life. I feel like she helped me skip a bunch of years of wondering or skirting around issues and I've been able to move forward a lot faster than I would have been without her.

Amy writes ...

Sonja's a fabulous ally to have on your side.

She has this amazing ability to pinpoint qualities you sensed were true about you and dynamics you naturally inhabit but didn't quite consciously know—and make it all clear. From there she guides you into the practical navigation around that revelation. Her spellwork alone fascinates me.

This isn't just one thing but an ecosystem around you, for you. If you're even wondering, then yes, this is for you. 

Friendly Neighborhood Sorceress

Trained Reiki Master, astrologer, pranic energy healer, spellcaster, channeler, that's me. These skills help me connect to what your soul wants you to know, and help me clear out energy that is holding you back. And mindset tools from over a decade in tech and management help me ground the spiritual into practical, actionable support you can use right away. 

I like To Art

When my kiddo was born, I painted a wall of superheroes on the bedroom wall. It's huge, awesome, and I'm never doing it again. If anyone knows how to take a wall with you when you move, let me know.

It's a pandemic, no shaking

All of my work is remote, because #pandemic. Win for both of us: pajamas!

I mean, it's a dragon icon

How could I not use a dragon icon? So here's a dragon icon.

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